Battle of the bodies!

Okay so lets cut straight to the chase and not beat around the bushes. We all think we're FAT!!!! If we're not skinny that means we are obese...hmmm that doesn't sound quite right but that's only because of today's society. In order to be considered 'skinny' you need to have a thigh gap?? A very tiny waist?? And a stick like figure?? What happened to being curvy women, like Marilyn Monroe? She is the worlds biggest sex icon and her thighs touch, she wasn't a stick either.... Body Image is the number one struggle with the female sex these days. (boys have body image issues too but I'm not talking about them) Girls look at magazines and think why can't I look like that? Im so fat and ugly. Then they look at their friends and think why am I soooo fat?  They look in the mirror and compare everything possible and just put themselves down. I'm pretty sure 99% of girls do this I think I could even say I can guarantee that. Even I (Sky) when I go to the beach get low self esteem because I see all these girls in bikinis who are 'skinny' and according to society in return makes me an elephant compared to them.  Sometimes it feels as if no matter how healthy you eat or how much you exercise, it goes nowhere....There are many categories I guess you could say when it comes to body Image but I think what is affecting society most is weight and an everyday battle for many teens, who feel that, unless they fit society's image, they will miss out on everything possible.

Relationship Status- single and ready to mingle.... AGAIN

Experation date-ing !!!

I love the moment your eyes make contact with him, after you have been staring at him for at least 15 minutes thinking about how gorgeous he is.  Buuuut then you realize your on a holiday and that it would be pointless to pursue him because you know that it would have an expiration date. What's a girl to do?  Are we meant to let these amazing guys fall through our fingers just  because we know it will shortly come to an end? Is there such thing as expiration date-ing?  And if so,  is it OK or frowned upon?

These are question especially important to me because I am moving countries for a year and can't get into a relationship for obvious reasons. I know when it will end. But it sucks to know that I could meet a great guy,  who is super cute, but have to let him go because we couldn't get serious. is it bad to fool around with a guy even though you know it can't turn into anything?

Relationship Status - why do I come with an expiration date?

The carrie diaries 2nd season !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok so I'm sure many of you would know that The Carrie Diaries has been approved for a second season, and some of you may have noticed that Sky and I(Peaches) are very big supporters of the show.... you may have noticed our suggested shows/movies/books/youtube clips down the right hand side of our blog(only seen on the computer version of our site not the mobile). Anywho... as I was saying, TCD have been approved for their second season and Sky and I are uber excited. But after researching what might be included in the second season, I found that a lot of people wanted to get rid of Carrie's home town characters like her sister, dad, and two besties(one of which is not so best anymore). But I personally would love to see how her sister's and Mouse's newly found relationships pan out. Although I wouldn't really care if they got rid of the rest (other than walt of course considering he moves to the city with her). Another thing I wanted to talk about was the introduction of the original characters. Being a big fan and avid viewer of the original SATC, it was kind of painful to find out that they were introducing Samantha Jones into the show before they introduced Miranda(Carrie's oldest friend out of the four power women of Manhattan). Anyone who watched the original SATC would understand the devastation I felt upon hearing the news. Ok ok, its probably dramatising it a bit too much by saying it like that, I don't mind too much that Samantha is the first to be introduced along with Stanford (which we all heard about in the season finale of season 1). The more prominent reason I am upset with the situation, is probably the worry that the writer of the new prequel series to SATC (although a great idea that was long overdue) obviously didn't do much homework on the original SATC, which is a bit silly considering she was writing a prequel to it. It gives me great distress to know that there could be many aspects of the upcoming series that I will not agree with, and could in turn ruin my viewing experience. Although this is so, I still can't wait what will happen in season 2, especially now I have become so attached to the characters and plot. Cant wait and hope all you loveliez are equally as excited - or are inspired to watch the first season if you haven't yet, cause its GREAT hahaha

Relationship Status - Single and addicted to TCD hahaha

Really?! 18, I mean REALLY!!

Ok, first off I would like to apologize for the lack of blogging Sky and I have been doing. But now, on to the topic of today's rant hahaha. Vibratores and dildoes. I know many would look down on me for even saying this out loud but, c'mon, Girls from the age of 13 and some even younger have actually started masturbating. Personally I think that is actually  bit too you... I was probs 14, but we need to stop pretending that it doesn't exist. So my reason for this rant is because I have recently been in the market for a ... vibratore, but unfortunately you have to be 18+ to get one from your local store(and I can't just have it sent to me cause that would be really awkward if mum were the one to get it and not me hahahaha). This leads me to my question, why do you have to be 18+ to buy a sex toy... lowering the age restriction would probs lower the teen pregnancy rate, considering my old viby could do things no guy ever could (btw.. still a virgin). And I'm sure many of you are wondering why I am having troubles getting a new one if I have gotten one before, the answer to that is... an old friend gave me my broken one, but she moved away. Not to mention I am moving country and want something a little more discreet to take with me. But seriously, can you believe that you are legally allowed to have sex before your legally allowed to buy a sex toy. Where is the logic in that? WHERE?!!!!!
wfeeeef.. now that's off my chest... anybody got any suggestions for how to get one, on the slyyyyyy ahahha?

Relationship Status - Craving the viby

Confused

So I am not to sure as to what my relationship status is. It's up in the air at the  moment. First this guy I'm head over heels for asks me out, then decides after a week to break it off BY TEXT!!. Then he tells me it was because people were shit talking to his face about our relationship. He calls and apologies and wants to get back together. I'm sooooo confused and said I need time to think, as in the past I've heard it all before only to be hurt worse every time. Is he telling the truth and being genuine or is it all BULLSHIT like the rest??? I don't know,  I'm hell lost!!!! but we have made a time to discuss everything so hopefully it goes well.....

Relationship Status - Who the fuck knows!!!

Its just too tight!

Ok, so this might sound unusual to many girls out there..... but I kind of just want to get my *cough cough*

virginity out of the way so that when I do finally get into a relationship that is sexually active, I'll know what I'm doing. You know, to keep the awkward stuff out of the way of a promising relationship. Buuuuut unfortunately im ... aaaaaaaaaa..... just way too... well... TIGHT!  Yes I said it, I divulged a secret that a girl just isn't supposed to tell on the world wide web for all to see. After freaking out a little about how this is going to be soooo inconvenient I decided to do some real life research, and for all those who don't understand what that means, I'm saying instead of the usual ask google approach I asked REAl PEOPLE! which might be new to many people ( of the 21st century ) for a girl to be doing. Anyway, back on topic. I asked a few guys what that will mean for me (making sure it was all hypothetical in their eye's of course). And the verdict was very unhelpful. Apparently guys just aren't as caring and genuine as all us girls hoped; or so it seemed. The guys that i asked all seemed to say the same thing. The answers were always one of the following:

1)Do all the other stuff then, at least the guy will still have fun.(real nice huh? well it gets better)

2)Work through the pain hunny, its not that f**king hard, give the guy some fun.(think it gets better from here? think again)

3)Stretch yourself out,even if it tears, at least it will get the job done for the poor bastard.

These were only a few of many chauvinistic and inconsiderate responses that I actually got back. So you can see what I mean when I say that they aren't as good as they lead on, boys, are they? So it makes a girl think, is there such thing as a serious and caring, loving relationship; or is it just another guy high on testosterone with the hopes of getting some from an innocent girl looking for love, and a guy to give it to her. Those perfect relationship you see on movies or tv seem like a myth at the moment. Please!!!! somebody prove me wrong to put me out of this misery that I am now facing after losing all trust in the male gender. 

Relationship Status - Unintentionally celibate(yet slightly intentional)  

Facebook official!

All my friends say its not official unless its facebook official. You see although all my friends say its not official yet because its not facebook official, my guy and I don't see it that way. We have talked and come to the decision that it is not needed to prove our dating. Or is it? Have we as a society of young people come to the point that if your in a serious relationship you need to shout it out to the whole world on FACEBOOK! I just don't understand what the big deal is.

Relationship Status - Taken